Change

I've always hated change, dreaded it in fact. Maybe, it's because I've had so many life altering changes in my life that I just long for some stability. The problem is, no matter how hard I try I can't stop change from coming. 

Meredith Grey says, "Change, we don't like it, we fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. And it hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn't is lying. But here's the truth: the more things change, the more they stay the same. And sometimes change is good. Oh, sometimes change is … everything."

When I think about change, it scares me, the fear of the unknown terrifies me. I think the most terrifying thing about change is the fact that somethings will never be the same again. Some relationships can never be repaired and no matter how hard you try, they won't go back to the way they were.  

However, some of the greatest things in my life have come from change. New adventures, friends, and relationships. Change is what shapes us, shapes our lives. As scary as it is, it's necessary. Change is one of the only constants we have.